Developing a Positive Self-Image
Today we continue to answer the following question that a soccer player asked on our Soccer Psychology Survey about how to perform under pressure:
“During every game and practice when I am performing under pressure my mind over thinks everything and I tend to mess up on the simplest things. When I am under pressure the feelings of nervousness mixed with my fear of messing up causes my head to not think clearly and I can’t focus on where to move or what to do on the field. How can I play better under pressure?”
In part one, we talked about how you can better cope with pressure. Today, in part two, we will help you develop a positive image of yourself as a composed athlete rather than a choker in pressure situations.
You cannot perform your best or have maximum composure unless you have a strong foundation of self-confidence. When you are fully confident in your abilities, you are less likely to be anxious about making mistakes, about embarrassing yourself, about letting others down – all thoughts that will make it difficult to stay composed in crunch time.
Soccer players who perform well in crunch time have developed confidence in there ability to stay composed in high pressure situations such as penalty kicks, championship games, or tryouts. They are in control of their emotions and thought process. They maintain less doubt by focusing on their strengths and what they need to do to execute.
The opposite can also be true in that some athletes repeatedly choke, become unglued in crunch time, and can never seem to be able to finish off a close competition. These athletes begin to label themselves as “chokers” or a player who cannot execute under pressure.
In order to execute when the stakes are high, you need to learn how to develop a positive self-image of yourself as a composed athlete. We want you to improve self-confidence in your ability to perform in all kinds of challenging environments.
Let us start by identifying some negative self-labels (names you might give yourself that are not helpful), which undermine your beliefs about performing well during crunch-time:
- I choked in the past and I will continue to be a choker.
- I am not a big game player; I never perform well in big games.
- I can’t relax and play my game.
- I crumble under the pressure of a big lead and find a way to lose.
- When I perform, I am so scared to play badly.
- I always let my teammates down.
Are these the type of statements you say to yourself? If so, it is important to know your self-image dictates how well you will play in competition.
The goal is to discard negative self-labels and adopt a positive self-image about performing well under pressure.
Below are three examples that you could use to revive your self-image about competing under pressure. Create a positive outlook on how you handle pressure by saying the following statements to yourself daily.
Statements to revive your self-image:
- I perform my best in crunch-time pressure.
- I love the feelings that come when the game is on the line.
- When I’m feeling the pressure (anxiety or tension) coming on, I don’t have to pay attention to it, I will just play like I do when I’m playing for fun.
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